= better of being those who don't care at all =
= rather than being those who pretend to care =
better say I cant do it, I don't have enough effort and time
rather than, Yes I can but later, I'm sorry, I have I got to study here and that, etc. etc...., can we postpone later?
and it will be postponed till forever, for sure
believe it or not? you need to believe it.